Matthew Nelson, beloved son, brother, nephew, cousin, grandson and friend, passed away unexpectedly on November 9, 2026 leaving behind his parents and 3 siblings. A resident of Hornell, NY, Matthew was just 25 years old on the date of his passing.
Born on May 23rd, 2001 in Rochester, NY, Matthew was the beloved son of James Nelson and Sharon Walling, and adored brother to Alexander Nelson (Breauna Nelson), Connor Nelson and Lindsey Nelson. Growing up, the Walling/ Nelson household was always fun and full of energy and love.
A graduate of Hornell High School, Matthew spent much of his working life as a carpenter, putting his hands-on skills and natural ability to build and create to use. He was a dedicated and hardworking man who could be counted on to put in an honest day’s work. His years as a carpenter were simply one part of the life he lived and the many things that made him who he was.
Matthew’s love for sports was unmatched. A giant sports fan, he had a knack for supporting the winning team after they won, and he could rattle off sports statistics easily from memory. Music was another passion of his, a soundtrack to the many adventures he shared with those around him.
Known for his outgoing and loud nature, Matthew’s personality was as big as they come. He had a remarkable ability to make everyone feel included and valued, often being the life of the party and the heart of every gathering. His laughter was infectious, and his stories were legendary, leaving an indelible mark on all who knew him.
He is survived by his loving family, including his uncles, Greg (Amanda) Walling, Adam Walling (Kara Bonney), and David Nelson; and his grandparents, Sue and Jim Walling, who were so proud of the man he became. Also survived by his cousins, Megan Nelson (James LePosa), Ayden Walling, Troy Walling, Jackson Walling, Sutton Walling, and Nolan Walling, will miss the memories, laughter, and stories they shared with Matthew. He was predeceased by his beloved Aunt, Misty Walling and cousin Jacob Nelson.
Calling hours will be held from 12 – 2:30pm. Funeral Services, led by Pastor Aaron Strange, will begin right after at 2:30 pm, on November 15th, 2026 at Brown & Powers Funeral Home (354 Canisteo St. in Hornell) A Celebration of Life will follow right after the service at The VFW in Hornell.
In lieu of flowers and in memory of Matthew, the family requests that donations be made to Steuben County Community Services, ℅ Jessica Frawley, 115 Liberty St. in Bath NY. to support mental health services in our area.
Though his time with us was far too short, Matthew leaves behind a legacy of warmth, laughter, and love that will forever be cherished by his family and friends. His vibrant spirit and zest for life will be deeply missed but never forgotten.
Matthew’s passing is a heartbreaking reminder that sometimes the struggles people face are not always visible to those around them. Mental health matters, and no one should ever feel they have to face their battles alone. If you are struggling, please know that you are loved, your life matters, and there is help available. Reach out to someone, speak up, and allow others to walk beside you through the difficult moments. There is no shame in asking for help, and even when life feels overwhelming, there is hope.
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